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An ancient tradition banned by the Taliban is now experiencing a comeback in Afghanistan. It’s the practice of “bacha bazi” or ‘boy for play’. Teenage boys abandoned by their families are forced to dance at parties and sometimes become sex partners for men. Anchor Marco Werman speaks with Ghaith Abdul Ahad, who wrote about ‘bacha bazi’ for The Guardian newspaper.

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MARCO WERMAN: The U.S.-led invasion of Afghanistan in 2001 ousted the Taliban from official power there.  Right now, the Taliban are once again in control of large parts of the county. Still, a number of practices once banned by the Taliban have re-emerged since 2001.  One of them is a disturbing 5,000-year-old practice called bacha bazi.  Loosely translated it means “boy for play.”  It involves young male dancers, often runaways, who are kept and hired out by older Afghan men for parties and weddings. Ghaith Abdul Ahad is based in Beirut for The Guardian Newspaper in London.  He’s written about the so-called dancing boys, and Ghaith, first of all, describe the scene for us at one of these parties.

GHAITH ABDUL AHAD: Well, it’s a bunch of men, Afghan men, bearded sitting cross-legged in the middle of a room.  After dinner, there will be a dancer.  Usually, the dancer conceals his face, of course, but they pretend they’re woman. So they dress like woman, they have lots of bells around their ankles and feet and arms and they dance in a very specific way like in a sort of stomping the feet and shaking the bells and they sing also.  And, of course, they are boys.

WERMAN: And if they pretend they’re women, why aren’t women dancing?

GHAITH: I think it’s the 5,000-years-old question, but I ask this question, “Why don’t you bring woman?”  They say woman are not allowed to dance in front of men, even if they were prostitutes or belly dances.”  So the society is so …  I don’t know what words to use, but the society is so weird, it’s so difficult, it’s so strange that a woman cannot dance in public but a boy can dance in public.

WERMAN: A boy can dance in public dressed up as a woman?

GHAITH: Dressed as a woman and abused.  Of course, they are not just dancing boys, they’re abused boys.  They’re like sort of concubines, but they’re boys.

WERMAN: And as you say, the bacha dancers are often abused children whose families have abandoned them, and then they end up by getting virtually owned by their master. That sounds like sexual slavery.

GHAITH: Well, it’s a mixture between sexual slavery, between abuse, between pedophilia and between dancing. So sometimes they are kind of abused children abandoned by their families.  Sometimes they’re kidnapped children. Sometimes they are poor children sold by their families for such a job.

WERMAN: Now, you spoke to several of these boys, two in particular, Mustapha and Habib, and they seemed to have different views on the practice.  What did they tell you?

GHAITH: Most of it is this dancer in some tiny little village.  He’s abused. He’s young.  He hates what he’s doing.  He’s forced to do what he’s doing, and he has no choice.  Habib, on the other side, he sees himself as a dancer.  He loves doing what he’s doing.  He is apparently a very famous dancer.  So these are the two different characters.

WERMAN: Habib told you that people accuse him of being gay but he says he’s not. What about the men, though, who keep these boys and are entertained by them. Are they gay?

GHAITH: This is the weirdest thing in the world.  In Afghanistan, in the Afghan context, no they are not gay.  They have sexual relationships with men, but then if you ask them if they are gays, they say no.  Most of the time even when they keep a dancing boy or a bacha bazi or they have sexual relationship with another man, they have a wife, they have a family, they have children, and then they keep this other relationship.  This is Afghanistan.

WERMAN: How widespread is this practice, Ghaith, and how accepted is it?

GHAITH: It’s very widespread.  Of course, in some areas more than other area, but in this belt around Kabul north of Kabul and a bit south of Kabul, you rarely go to a wedding in countryside unless it is like a very conservative Islamic wedding.  If you go to like a tribal wedding, you must probably see one, two, three, five bacha bazi boys dancing in the wedding.

WERMAN: Does the Afghan government frown upon this?

GHAITH: It’s banned by the Afghan government.  It’s banned by the police.  It’s banned by the Afghan government, but because Afghanistan is such a lowest place at the moment, I think the list of priorities of the Afghan government, bacha boys comes like towards the end of the list.

WERMAN: And what happens, Ghaith, to these boys once they’ve grown up?  Because 19 is kind of the cut-off age for being a bacha bazi.

GHAITH: Once the bacha bazi reaches the age when they become men, they get out.  They leave it. They leave this thing and then the become men and they marry wives and they have children and they have families.

WERMAN: And are they ever ostracized by society once they get older because people find out they used to be dancing boys?

GHAITH: A man who used to be a dancing boy would, of course, be ostracized but, yeah, they become men.

WERMAN: Ghaith Abdul Ahad has written about the practice of bacha bazi or dancing boys for The Guardian Newspaper.  He’s been speaking to us from his base in Beirut.  Ghaith, thanks very much.

GHAITH: Thank you.


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13 comments for “Dancing boys of Afghanistan”

  • Rita

    This custom is not so weird — it was practised by the Classical Greeks whom we revere for inventing science, democracy, etc, and is practised in many cultures where men and women are kept strictly separated. *** Does do the newspaper article go into more detail about having been banned by the Taliban? As I recall from news coverage in the 1990s, the Taliban banned dancing but the Taliban commanders all kept teen-age boys as concubines and drove around in public with their boys in their trucks.

  • hman

    no dont listen what people tell you, the taliban banned these practises because they knew it was wrong, plus afghanistan was safe under the taliban they brought peace which afghans did not see in more than 20 years, they cut down on drugs, alcohol, even ciggarettes, it was hard to find drug dealers and drug addicts under the taliban. They stabelized the country. Yes i know they were harsh against women which was wrong but they knew what they were doing. btw life expectancy was higher under the taliban, right now the situation went from bad to worse.

    • Eric Mann

      Dear HMAN, You may be right about the Taliban bringing peace by banning the use of alcohol, tobacco and narcotics, but did they have to treat women like chattels?

  • http://www.hemroidshemorrhoids.com/ Hemorrhoids

    Hi….. Opportunity dances with those who are already on the dance floor. This is what i want to tell. thank you.

  • David Little

    The paragraph that begins “most of this is…” should probably begin “Mustapha is…”

    I see a lot of difference between this and the ancient Greeks, in part because the Afghan boys seem to be pimped and ‘for hire’. And yes it is weird..as in much of the Muslim world men who have sex with men or boys do not see themselves as gay, providing they are ‘top’ and/or paid (in which case it is merely business).

  • David Little

    I should perhaps add, in fairness, that in this particular case the boy may not be gay, but merely doing what he has to do to survive, in the circumstances.

  • louise

    hi there, for a broader historical perspective on the institutionalised sexual abuse of young boys please read the first 4 chapters of ‘parenting for a peaceful world’ by Robin Grille.
    No-one should have to endure the repeated emotional and physical agony of sexual assault in order to have food, shelter and security.
    I watched a documentary about this phenomenon recently and the ‘pimps’ who owned dancing boys were joking about a 14 year old child being gang-raped by drunken party-goers in the backseat of a car. They really thought it was funny and for all the empathy they showed the victim they may as well have been talking about an inflatable sex-doll. Apparently he didn’t object, move or even make a sound so he had either been subdued with violence or drugs or was too terrified of his many attackers to defend himself.
    Also, I wonder how many of these enlightened, modern afghan men use condoms? What is the HIV infection rate in Afghanistan anyway? The boys may grow up to at least try to live normal lives but their lives could be cut short by disease, and their personal relationships with their own families devastated by the trauma they’ve sustained.

    • blmh

      I saw that documnetary also and there just is no excuse for this behavior, not culture, not tradition… wrong is wrong. and this “practice” is wrong and people/ the media need to stop sugar coating atrocities against human being for whatever reason

  • Nell J. Freshour

    The truth is lacking in this piece. The police, top government officials and men with money are all into this god forsaken practice. Many of these defenseless children are killed in a horrible way if they try to escape and many become the teachers for these god forsaken men. Why isn’t this info spread throughout the world? This is no different then Sodom, ect. May Gods curse be upon these countries and men who do such things.

  • Donald Trump

    I hope the Obama administration takes a look at this practice in Afghanistan and eliminates it. Public awareness is needed. These boys should qualify for refugee status in the United States and be placed in foster care. These boys will be the future terrorists of the world if we do not try to help them.

  • C Lee

    A petition should be filed on behalf of these boys, many who are
    war orphans and as young as nine years of age, with the U.N. and brought to the attention of every human rights organization.
    I have always believed that men who dehumanize and victimize women
    could never truly love or desire
    women.

  • B Bensen

    Bacha Bazi is depicted in the movie The Kite Runner – very graphically.

  • http://asdfk.com Hedy Iarocci

    I’ve never taken that point of view on it. I suppose its excellent to analysis and read up on these kind of issues every so often so that way 1 is by no means out with the loop. thanks!