Cooking Tibetan food in India

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Tsering Wongdo and his older brother Tsering Dhondup cook Tibetan food in India and dream about a home they've never seen

ByJill Ryan

On a busy road along the Sabarmati river in the Indian city of Ahmedabad, children play and goats scavenge through trash by a row of ramshackle buildings. In one of the buildings, two brothers cook up some of the only Tibetan food in the city.

Tsering Wongdo and his older brother Tsering Dhondup have been whipping up dishes like shaptuk and “thugpa” or noodle soup since they came here looking for work in 2000. The fact that their restaurant has dirt floors and only three walls doesn’t seem to bother the lunchtime crowd.

“Half veg momo,” Wongdo yells out. “Egg chow mein”

One customer, who attends a nearby college, said, between bites of egg chow mein, the gritty atmosphere was intimidating at first. “The space was a little dingy,” she said. “It was weird coming to a place this shady, but the food turned out to be good.”

One of the restaurant’s main draws is the dumplings, or “momo’s,” that the brothers make each morning. Wongdo rolls a ball of smooth, white dough into a small disc and Dhondup spoons ground meat and vegetables in the middle. He pinches the edges together, just like his parents taught him as a kid. Their parents also owned a momo shop. That’s where Wongdo and Dhondup learned much of what they know about Tibet.

They brothers have never actually been there. They were born in northern India, after their parents fled with the Dalai Lama in 1959. The brothers are among the 100,000 ethnic Tibetans now living in India.

The brothers’ parents preserved their culture. They spoke Tibetan, they celebrated ethnic festivals and drank traditional butter tea. As a result, the brothers grew up thinking of Tibet as home. They haven’t become Indian citizens, and are classified as refugees, even though, Wongdo said, it means that they have to renew their passports each year and give up certain rights.

“I only want to be a Tibetan,” he said. “If one Tibetan becomes an Indian and then another follows, then Tibet will eventually become extinct.”

In the meantime, Dhondup said, they’re considered outsiders in the only country where they’ve ever lived. “It can be difficult,” he said. “Sometimes people call me Chinese or they call me Nepali. They look at us like we’re the odd ones out.”
Wongdo and Dhondup say they hope that they can move to Tibet in their lifetime. But they have another, less hypothetical move, in their near future. The Ahmedabad city government is planning to develop the riverfront property where their restaurant sits. They’ll probably have to close within six months.

But the brothers say they’re not worried. They say they’ll find some way to start a new shop, so they can continue to roll out momo dough every morning. Download MP3

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  • Bharati

    Tibetans may feel ‘odd’. I am amazed both the Tibetans and writer do not know India was the only country which offered these sad illiterate, destitute refugees accommodation, passports, food, etc. when the whole world refused. That too, when India itself was reeling from British colonial horrors and sheer looting.India had little food and less infrastructure but offered whatever it had. Does gratitude exist? Or do we only find complaints and heavy duty Tibetan guards who shout at Indians in Dharamshala? Britain and the US of course refused to help. China then attacked India for sheltering the Dalai. Indian soldiers died for Tibetans. Only the Dalai remembers….

    • Chintan

      I think your comments are very short sighted and they are full of ignorance. Because they feel like outsider, it doesn’t mean they are insulting India or its people. You do have to agree with the fact that us Indian are not unique in any way, similar to people all around the world, we have this form ignorant attitude when it comes to are treating the outsiders. Btw, China attacked India for the multiple for reasons and Tibetan’s did fight along side of us in 62 war. Please go learns some history before you start making swiping statements on web. Your comments plainly put are very embarrassing. It seems to be that you might had a bad experience in Dharamshala and that may have effected your opinion towards Tibetans.

  • Rebecca

    Bharati – You sound a bit bitter, your view is one dimensional and you are exaggerating the lack of gratefulness that the Tibetans offer India. And the truth is that America did offer to help set the Dalai Lama up elsewhere, but because of the long relationship with India and its close proximity to Tibet he chose to accept the hospitality of India. And while there are difficulties for the refugee Tibetan communities throughout India in general there is a high degree of recognition that India has provided so much for them. But truth be told every Tibetan living outside of Tibet wants to return to their beloved homeland. I imagine you would feel the same in similar circumstances. One does not have to take that as a personal attack on India.
    Counting numerous Tibetans as my friends and family I take offense to your description as sad illiterate and destitute. I could describe millions of Indians as the very same. Being a refugee in any country is filled with difficulties that being you are not a refugee you would not be able to comprehend fully.
    At any rate I think it’s great that these two brothers are trying to forge their own way in the world and are true to their cultural heritage while doing it. I’m sure were you or I in a similar situation we would experience much the same. A little compassion goes a long way Mr. Bharati.

  • Neelima

    I love to hear such stories of multi-culturism, especially when it happens in my hometown. It highlights that while Ahmedabad may be less known to the outside world compared to Mumbai and Delhi, it has its own way of attracting and absorbing other cultures.

  • sam

    rebeccca i think you dont have the clear picture of the situation. except dalai lama and few old tibetans, no young tibetans are thankfull to india and its people.but they hate indians,and do propoganda against them of racism.
    the people of india are sharing there resources with tibetans,its not an easy thing. i am 54 years old and i remember how govt took land forcefully from the local people and gave it to tibetansa.local people have suffered emotionally and financially to refuge these people now that land costs millions of rupees and most important thing is that this land is emotionally important to us because it belongs to our forefathers. its easy to lecture others. if you think that tibetans are suffering in india then why dont you donate your house to them, invite them to your house and give your land. if you cant then please dont lecture others. we still could forget this if some body is polite and little thankfull. but tibetans are aggressive and thank less except dalai lama. i think after dalai-lama tibetans sould leave india, because of their aggression and thankless behaviour they would not get sympathy and land from local people